Scratching The Itch

Caught me at work this time! I put my Messenger on, basically because I left my phone at home.  But unsuspecting me got caught by Fling.  A pleasant surprise as I'd not heard anything in a while and always good to know he's doing alright.  But FFS, I should have known better than to try and hold a decent conversation.  It's not about decent conversations, it's about the indecent ones! I try to think of all the sayings that describe the situation and condition I find myself with.
He is a bit like an itch that you can't stop scratching. You think it's gone, then right when you're feeling more relaxed, more calm it's back and causing you grief.
Or you could compare him with a theme park ride... you know you shouldn't and it will be scary, you'll feel sick, but you'll have to keep going again, and again because the adrenalin rush it gives you is just so amazing.
I wonder if there is any type of patch to break the addiction?... will I end up having to go cold turkey?

MFM

I never got round to posting something about my OH having an fling years ago, admitting it, and then telling me to do the same. Well he did and I did. Only problem has been that his fling was a mate, who now never really talks to him, mine was a guy I got chatting to online and turned out he lived nearby, we've continued chatting. I think that my said fling has now got married tho, he's not bothered mentioning this, but is still chatting to me.... wonder if his new wife knows? Thankfully my OH knows that I still talk to fling.

If two people in a relationship are open, honest, agree and want the same thing, is it wrong for them have flings with others, or bring a 3rd person into the bedroom?
Do most relationships fail, when a person cheats, lies and covers things up?
Do men or even women,think "It's ok for me to do it, but I don't want my partner to"?
Also, how come it always seems more acceptable to talk about FMF fun, than MFM fun? Men seem to have the monopoly on bragging about themselves and two women, yet poor young girl is just a slut for even thinking about having two guys!

Going back to fling, who is a soldier, turns out he's now in Afghanistan. Hope he stays safe.