MFM

I never got round to posting something about my OH having an fling years ago, admitting it, and then telling me to do the same. Well he did and I did. Only problem has been that his fling was a mate, who now never really talks to him, mine was a guy I got chatting to online and turned out he lived nearby, we've continued chatting. I think that my said fling has now got married tho, he's not bothered mentioning this, but is still chatting to me.... wonder if his new wife knows? Thankfully my OH knows that I still talk to fling.

If two people in a relationship are open, honest, agree and want the same thing, is it wrong for them have flings with others, or bring a 3rd person into the bedroom?
Do most relationships fail, when a person cheats, lies and covers things up?
Do men or even women,think "It's ok for me to do it, but I don't want my partner to"?
Also, how come it always seems more acceptable to talk about FMF fun, than MFM fun? Men seem to have the monopoly on bragging about themselves and two women, yet poor young girl is just a slut for even thinking about having two guys!

Going back to fling, who is a soldier, turns out he's now in Afghanistan. Hope he stays safe.

Lazy

For fucks sake, I'm useless at keeping up to date with my blog, in fact am totally surprised I managed to guess my email and password correctly to get back into this.
I will try and make my entries more frequent, which could also be possible as I now only work part time. This is thanks to a medical episode I had a while ago. Collapsed at home, worked too hard and was too stressed, bought on some kind of seizure we think (we... as in me, the hospital and the OH).
I'm not sure what else has happened since the last entry, nothing of note... well been having a few ups and downs with the OH, no not the kind of sexy up and downs, far from it, quite the opposite which has caused the problems, and all my fault, but then I think that is down to the stress, and possibly the fact that I've discovered a strong attraction to women... I say strong, but it;s always been there, it just feels like now I'm older it's easier to deal with, and understand. But it hasn't helped that I've no idea how to actually go out and try and find a nice girl to hang out with. I'll be working on that online, and trying not to get embroiled in dodgy sex sites where I get hassled by men!